The Best Kept Secret to Happiness: Compassion

http://www.dreamstime.com/stock-image-chacma-baboon-image2038391Marketing executives want us to believe that happiness lies in a product that will taste delicious, magically fill our bank accounts, or transform us into a supermodel that looks not a day past 20. Our social norms promise that happiness will lie in status, accomplishments, relationships, and possessions. We are always on the lookout for the next thing: once we have the perfect mate, we look for the perfect home; once we’ve found the perfect home, we look for a bigger one, or a new car or a bigger bank account; once the perfect job is attained, we look for the next promotion or look forward to retirement or a new job. We seem to be on a constant and futile chase after the promised land of lasting happiness. Dan Gilbert of Harvard University has shown that we are, in fact, terrible at predicting what will lead to happiness. Our norms, for example, would suggest that a winning lottery ticket would make our happiness scores skyrocket while paralysis would make them plummet. Research shows, however, that winning the lottery ticket, though it creates an initial rise in well-being, does not lead to lasting happiness over time nor does becoming paraplegic lead to lasting unhappiness.

A closer look at our own experiences as well as research data suggests that

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7 Doors: One Student’s Journey to Happiness – Door One

Last year, students at the University of California piloted a new program from Project Happiness called 7 Doors to Happiness. The program was created as a resource for adults to access their own happiness and to share it with others. One of the USC students, Mecca Moore, blogged about her experience with the 7 Doors to Happiness and asked if she could share it on our site.

This year, this online course is once again being used at the University of Southern California and has expanded to be included in the Science of Happiness courses taught at Stanford University and Tennessee State University. The 7 Doors to Happiness is available to everyone. If you would like to sign up for this online course, please visit http://7doorstohappiness.com.

When I first signed on for the 7 Doors to Happiness program I was sure – so sure – the first door would have something to do with

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Steve Jobs: A Message for Future Leaders

From the Huffington Post: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/randy-taran/steve-jobs-a-message-for-_b_997675.html

I am saddened to hear of the passing of Steve Jobs. The legacy he leaves is one of innovation, inspiration and the boldness to channel one’s passions to change the world. At the commencement speech for the 2005 graduating class at Stanford, he told three brilliant stories, which inspire us now and can shine a light for generations to come.

1. Connecting the Dots:
Steve Jobs dropped out of Reed College, but continued to drop in on courses he found interesting, sometimes without even knowing why. He stated, “If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.

Again, you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking

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